What if I told you that finding the kind of mate you are looking for is a lot like ordering a pizza?
Manifestation Is Basically Putting Your Order In To The Universe
Manifesting works similarly to ordering anything, but in this case, we’ll use pizza.
You have to know a few things before you place the call, right?
🍕Like how many and what size pizza you need.
🍕What kind of crust you want.
🍕What toppings and sauce you want, what sides to go along with it and if you want that 2 liter of soda to go along with it.
🍕And know what place to order from.
🍕Pick up or delivery, and the address if delivery.
🍕Then you have to dial a phone (or get online) and tell the pizza place what you want and how you want to acquire it.
🍕Then you just wait for it to be made so you can pick it up or it can be delivered.
🍕Pay and eat!
Simple, right?
Manifesting isn’t actually complicated.
Humans make it complicated.
In using our pizza example, these are things that can keep you from getting the pizza you really want:
- Not specifying the right size
- Not picking a pizza that’s actually on the menu or with toppings they don’t have
- Telling the kid on the phone to just give you whatever is faster or convenient
- Not being home when it’s delivered
- Forgetting to go pick it up
- Not having money to pay for it
You won’t get what you really want if you do these things, right?
But that’s the way humans seem to approach dating.
I, myself, did that for a really long time.
And didn’t get what I wanted.
We approach manifestation in the same way:
- With doubts that get in the way
- Not being clear on what the order should be
- Failing to be visible so the order can be delivered
Here’s How To Get Your Order Right
First thing to do: Get the doubts out of they way.
Get into 100% belief that what you want is out there and that the Universe will provide it for you.
If you don’t completely believe you can have what you want or you don’t totally trust the Universe (or whatever you want to call it, God, Spirit, nature, whatever), then your order will not be clear and it will be delayed.
You don’t sit around after you’ve ordered your pizza and doubt whether it will arrive. No, you know it either will or you’ll be getting your money back.
Second thing to do: Get SUPER CLEAR on what it is that you want.
I know many of you think you have done this. You have, just not to the level necessary.
You need to know more than just the qualities you want in a mate.
You need to be clear on your top 5 non-negotiable values for your mate must share these too.
You need to know how you want to FEEL when you have this. How you want to FEEL when you are in this relationship. This is the part that most people skip because they haven’t experienced these things before and frankly, aren’t even sure it exists.
Doubt will kill your manifesting. Manifestation is a result of a dominant frequency/vibration.
If you’re dominant frequency is doubt, you will only get what you think is possible, because that’s DOMINANT.
The third thing you need to do: Become VISIBLE
Your ideal mate will not be delivered to your doorstep.
You have to take action to show you are serious.
Dating apps can count, I guess, but that’s not a high quality action. I don’t recommend relying solely on those to find a mate.
Getting out in real life or “in the wild” is going to really add some juice to your manifesting mojo.
Challenge yourself to get out of the house and say YES to things you would normally say no too.
Challenge yourself to get out alone.
If you do, it’s just a matter of time before you meet someone OR you meet someone who knows your ideal mate (which is what happened to me).
Ladies, I want to help you get the order you really want!
I’m hosting a FREE 3-day get-it-done style workshop where we’ll spend some time getting super clear on our order, placing the order, then brainstorming how to be available for it to be delivered.
It starts October 17th (18th & 21st), replay available.
To join me or for more information follow this link here: FIND YOUR MATE (Without Even Trying)
