Get Off The Dating Apps! (And Do This Instead for Better Results…)
I’m actually grateful that dating apps weren’t a huge thing back when I was still in the dating pool. I’m grateful because that means I had to get out of my introvert comfort zone and get out into the world. In case you don’t know my story, I didn’t meet my husband directly. I met […]
Is your internal compass pointing to TRUE North (the answer is NO if you’re stuck in a dating pattern)
Your body is your compass. It tells you when something feels unsafe. It tells you when something is uncomfortable (not WHY it’s uncomfortable, but just that there is discomfort). It tells you how you are feeling in the moment. It can tell you if you are making a ‘good’ choice or not. It tells you […]
Why Your dating Strategy Is Outdated (And How to Fix It)
TLDR: Your dating ‘strategy’ with emotionally unavailable men is not and never will work for you because it’s the strategy you developed as a child in order to deal with your emotionally unavailable parents. Heal that and you fix your dating issue. I help people do this, see below for ways to work with me. […]
One reason you may not be meeting quality people to date is because you aren’t fully being YOU
You may understand that authenticity is important in relationships. I mean, who seriously likes someone that’s obviously pretending to be something they are not? It’s a huge turn off. Because it’s a LIE. Inauthenticity Can Be Subtle Too But you may not fully see how even being subtly inauthentic, can be just as damaging. What […]
The Uncomfortable Truth About Dating That Nobody Wants to Tell You
A lot of healers in the personal transformation/dating space seem to not want to come out and say this but… …you haven’t found Mr. Right yet because you haven’t become the version of you that can ‘see’ him. I know you want to argue with me on that. I know you want to tell me […]
Why Do Some People Have An Easier Time Finding A Great Mate Than You?
You may be asking yourself this question: “Why do some people have an easier time finding a great mate than I do?“ You’re not alone, I used to think this all the time when I was in the dating world. There are two reasons, in my opinion… 1) They settled. This almost happened to me […]
The REAL Truth About Attraction So Strong You Can’t Say NO (even if you wanted to)
I recently attended Alanis Morissette’s 3 Moon tour. Joan Jett was was one of the warm up bands. It was a fantastic show! So glad I got to see both of them! But during Joan’s rendition of ‘I Hate Myself For Loving You’, I got to thinking. It’s Relatable! It’s a popular song…because it’s highly […]
Do You Have the Courage to Stop Dating Emotionally Unavailable People?
First I want to define what I mean by emotionally unavailable to make sure we are on the same page. When someone is emotionally unavailable, it means they are not willing to fully open up and let someone else into their heart. It is a state of being that is characterized by the individual being […]
This One Thing Is The Biggest Predictor To Finding Your Soulmate Partner
How you view your past relationships is a huge predictor of how your future relationships will go. The Turning Point of My Story If you’ve read my story before, you may have noticed that the point where everything changed for me, was the point at which I stopped looking at my past relationships as something […]
How To Meet a Good Guy NOW
Do you dare to believe that what you want…is also wanting you? This is actually a spiritual law. The Law of Synchronicity It’s the ‘what you seek is seeking you’, law. Basically, it works with the Law of Correspondence (your thoughts become things manifested in the outside world). Your internal world is busy creating, all […]