A huge piece of manifesting a partner is believing that your ideal mate exists and trusting that he will show up when both of you are ready.
If you don’t have total belief in this, it will delay (or even totally BLOCK) your meeting.
Some of you reading this have very little faith that this guy exists based on your past experiences.
I did too. As humans, we tend to use our past as a predictor of the future.
After all, our past has taught us some things, we may as well use it, right?
Why Using The Past To Predict The Future Is Backward
Unfortunately, even though it seems highly logical, it’s actually backward from the way Universal Energies work.
When you use the past to determine what is possible for you, you will stay stuck in the past and only attract the things that you think and feel are possible.
It’s one reason why you’re stuck in a certain dating pattern.
You will attract what you are a vibrational match for.
When you don’t believe that you can have what you want, you are NOT a vibrational match for what you want.
And therefore you will be subject to more of the same.
It Comes Down To A Decision
When I sat down to manifest my sacred partner on purpose, I had to tap into my higher self and discern what was truth and what was the voice in my head that was trying to keep me from being hurt and disappointed again.
When I say ‘higher self’, I’m talking about that part of me that comes from soul. That part that is not subject to the ego and past experiences. It’s the part that has the 50k foot view of my life. Call it intuition if you like.
I had to make a decision. If I want this, then I have to accept the risk and put my faith in the Universe.
Or keep status quo.
Back then, I was willing to try just about anything so it wasn’t that hard for me to go all in and believe.
Why It’s So Hard To Just BELIEVE
But today, as I face the exact same predicament with my business, I’m finding it MUCH harder to let go and believe.
I have a hard time even picturing the business I want.
All of the principles that I teach, I’m struggling to apply for myself.
Which is strange, because I know they work. I’ve been able to create so many things thus far using them.
So why am I doubting what I know works?
Two Reasons Doubt Persists
There are two reasons for that.
One is past trauma.
It has taught me to police my expectations. And to stay small and invisible.
It makes me feel like I won’t be accepted or liked.
It makes me feel like I am not enough.
I didn’t bump up against this one so much when I was trying to manifest a partner because I had already done quite a bit of work on these beliefs. But I’m finding there are multiple layers.
And they are coming to light now, ready to be shifted and integrated.
The second one is not believing I can have what I want is actually serving me.
If I don’t believe then I don’t have to do uncomfortable things.
If I don’t believe, then I can stay small and invisible.
If I don’t believe, then I can keep my self-pity addiction.
Yikes!
The good news is I’m aware of this now, so I can do the work to shift it.
Sometimes We Need Someone Who Can Hold The Belief For Us
I’m working with a coach who’s keeping me accountable and pointing out the things I miss.
So what I want you to know is, you’re in good company if you don’t 100% believe that what you want can happen.
Sometimes we need to be around others who can carry that belief for us until we can believe it on our own.
Find such a person for you if you desire a sacred union with an aligned partner.
I guarantee you’ll get there faster than if you go it alone.
HEY THERE! If you desire that sacred union, within the next year, let’s chat! I can help you identify the things that are blocking you from it right now and I can help you shift those things. You know how I know that? Because I’ve been able to shift those things. It starts with belief. To find out how I can specifically help you, click the link below and fill out the form. After you submit it, you’ll be prompted to pick a time we can chat.
I look forward to talking to you!
