The One Thing REALLY Wasting Your Time In Dating
Dating isn’t wasting your time. Other people aren’t wasting your time. Meeting a lot of the wrong ones is not what is wasting your time, this is part of it. Most people you meet will NOT be for you. The True Time Waster What’s wasting your time is holding onto those wrong ones for too […]
How to Make Dating FUN Again
Dating sucks! It’s NOT fun for you anymore. Why Dating is Hard It’s lost its mystery. It’s become a chore, frustrating, disappointing. You keep meeting the same guy just with a different face. MR doesn’t want anything serious MR set in his ways MR doesn’t go out of his way for you MR selfish MR […]
My Lessons in Pissing Off a Goddess
Gods/Goddesses don’t really give a fuck if you believe in them or not. It’s not that I didn’t believe in them. I knew better. I had taken shamanic workshops. I knew they were energies that had wisdom and teachings for us humans. But I didn’t believe that they were actually vengeful and could actually affect […]
How To Take A Gratitude Practice Deeper And Why You Should
With the holiday season in full swing I wanted to take a moment to talk about gratitude. To really reap the benefits of a gratitude practice, you’ll need to do more than just cultivate an awareness of what all you have to be grateful for. I’m sure you understand why cultivating gratitude in your life […]
Should you forgive if you never get a heartfelt apology?
Today I’m going to talk about the ‘F’ word. No, not that ‘F’ word! The word I’m talking about is forgiveness. Forgiveness gets a bad rap because people tend to confuse it with absolving another of their transgression against you. Forgiveness is not about giving someone a free pass to hurt you. It’s more for you […]
How to get more support in your life
II want to talk about support and why you might not have it. Do you have this current of feeling unsupported running through your life? Like you’ve never gotten and still don’t get the support from your family that you want. Or you don’t get the kind of support from your friends that you’d really […]
Change Your Life Through One Simple Act….
Today, I want to talk about something I remind my clients of regularly to watch out for. And that’s negativity bias. Negativity bias is a psychological phenomenon that suggests our brains are wired to pay more attention to negative information and experiences than positive ones. Especially if that negative information fits our current belief system […]
DATING CAN FEEL LIKE A CHORE – How to Make Dating Easier
You may feel like you are just unlucky or that having the kind of relationship you desire, with a partner that is a true partner in every sense of the word, is just not in the cards for you. This is especially true for those of us near 40 and over that have been around […]
Beware of Fake Vulnerability
When vulnerability is used as a manipulation tactic and how you can spot it. In my last post, I talked about this comfort zone that we all have around being vulnerable. The thing with being vulnerable is, it will always be met with truth. Truth about the level of vulnerability that that human is willing […]
If you tend to run across way too many emotionally unavailable people, this is probably why
One major reason you keep dating the the toxic or the emotionally unavailable… Your vulnerability comfort zone is dictating the kinds of partners you pick (and who pick you). The vulnerability comfort zone is exactly what it sounds like: your comfort level around being vulnerable. It’s how willing you are to let others into your […]