Beware of Fake Vulnerability
When vulnerability is used as a manipulation tactic and how you can spot it. In my last post, I talked about this comfort zone that we all have around being vulnerable. The thing with being vulnerable is, it will always be met with truth. Truth about the level of vulnerability that that human is willing […]
If you tend to run across way too many emotionally unavailable people, this is probably why
One major reason you keep dating the the toxic or the emotionally unavailable… Your vulnerability comfort zone is dictating the kinds of partners you pick (and who pick you). The vulnerability comfort zone is exactly what it sounds like: your comfort level around being vulnerable. It’s how willing you are to let others into your […]
20 Beliefs That Need To Shift In Order To Find A Great Partner OR Up-level Your Current Relationship
I have spent the last three years coaching people around their beliefs that are either keeping them single or making them unhappy with their current relationship. This is a list of 20 common ones. Some of these really only apply to those that are single. Some apply to both, and some apply to those partnered […]
How Much More Time Are You Going To Let Slip By Dating The Wrong People?
How to find a soulmate You’ve been single for a LONG time. Perhaps never having married. And it’s not from lack of trying! Your heart has gone through the ringer multiple times, with nothing to show for it. 💔 Every guy (or gal) you pick turns out to be unsupportive or perhaps controlling in some way […]
There Is Only ONE Simple Reason You Are Still Single
Why am I still single? It’s a fair question and I used to ask myself this all the time. I could sit here and give you a list of 10 like everyone else does. I know people like that shit but here is why it would be a waste of your time. Every single one […]
Attraction: The Only Secret That You Need To Know
Attraction is all about energy. You are frustrated with dating right now because you keep attracting the wrong partners. There is a large part of you that thinks this is happening because you aren’t enough in some way or even are too much in other ways. Like you are some kind of ‘tough sell’. For […]
Dating Sucks! Do You Want A True Partner But Feel Like Time Isn’t On Your Side?
Dating…ugh, right? Does it seem like you are on a dating trial and error merry-go-round? If so, read on for some tips on how to break that cycle and find ‘the one’. Dating: Where Did The Time Go? You been single a long time.⏳ Perhaps you’ve never been married! Each time you give it a […]
Being Too Independent Could Be Keeping You From Finding Your Soul Partner
If you are the type of person who has trouble asking for and receiving support from others, being too independent could be why you haven’t found your soul partner. How do I know? This was (perhaps still is to an extent) me. Defining Too Independent I know this persona well. Tell me if this sounds […]
What You Need To Do To Find Your Soul Partner
You would LOVE to find your soul partner. But you have found it hard to find someone that isn’t intimidated by a strong, independent, successful woman. To you lifelong bachelorettes and long-time divorcees that have refused to settle: I see you, I feel you 🔥You are a fiercely independent, successful, powerful woman. 🔥You aren’t willing […]
Should You Give Your Ex Another Chance?
It’s a valid question. Who wants to waste more time on a repeat of the last go ‘round? Should you give your ex another chance: How do you know? So how do you know for sure? You don’t. I’d say that if you want to be 100% sure things will be different for you, don’t […]